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Thoughtful guidance on dating, relationships, and matchmaking for singles in San Francisco, Silicon Valley, and the Bay Area.

Dating & Matchmaking Insights

Who Needs a Matchmaker?

Most people don't need a matchmaker. But when work, a limited social circle, or dating apps aren't helping you meet the right people, matchmaking can open the door to a different network.

Who Needs a Matchmaker? | Matchmaker Amy

Dating App Fatigue - Maybe You Don't Need More Matches. Maybe You Need a Different Way to Meet People.

Tired of matching, messaging, dating, and starting over? Dating fatigue may not mean you should stop dating. It may simply be time to try a different way to meet people.

Dating App Fatigue: Why More Matches Aren't Better

AI Matchmaking, Dating Apps, or a Human Matchmaker? Finding the Dating Approach That Fits You

AI matchmaking is changing how people meet. Matchmaker Amy explores why AI, dating apps, and human matchmaking may each be right for different people—and how the way we choose to search can reflect our values.

AI Matchmaking vs Dating Apps & Human Matchmakers

What I’ve Learned From Working With American-Born Chinese Singles

As a matchmaker, Amy has noticed that many American-born Chinese singles are not simply choosing between Chinese and American dating cultures. Family, identity, shared values, and the feeling of being understood can all shape what they want in a long-term relationship.

American-Born Chinese Dating: A Matchmaker’s Perspective

What Is MBTI? A Simple Guide to Personality Types in Dating

Curious about MBTI? Learn what the four letters mean, how the 16 personality types work, and how personality types can help you better understand yourself, dating, and relationships.

What Is MBTI? Personality Types, Dating & Relationships

Who Is Matchmaker Amy? A Private Matchmaker for Serious Relationships in the San Francisco Bay Area

What does a private matchmaker actually do? Amy explains her approach to compatibility, introductions, cultural understanding, and serious relationships in the San Francisco Bay Area.

Who Is Matchmaker Amy? | San Francisco Bay Area Matchmaker

Why Finding the Right Person in San Francisco Can Feel So Difficult

San Francisco is full of accomplished, interesting people. So why can finding the right relationship still feel so difficult? A matchmaker’s perspective on dating in the Bay Area.

San Francisco Matchmaker: Why Finding the Right Person Feels Hard | Matchmaker Amy

Dating in the Bay Area: Why Successful Singles Still Struggle to Meet the Right Person

Career success does not automatically make relationships easier. Here is why many accomplished Bay Area singles still struggle to find compatible partners.

Bay Area Matchmaker for Successful Singles | Matchmaker Amy

Dating in Silicon Valley When Your Career Leaves Little Time for Dating

For founders, executives and busy professionals, dating often competes with work for limited time and attention. A more intentional approach can change the experience.

Silicon Valley Matchmaker for Busy Professionals | Matchmaker Amy

What Does a Professional Matchmaker Actually Do?

Professional matchmaking is more than arranging introductions. Learn what happens behind the scenes and what a thoughtful matchmaking process should look like.

What Does a Professional Matchmaker Do? | Matchmaker Amy

How to Choose the Right Matchmaker for You

The best matchmaker is not simply the person with the largest database. Here are the questions to ask when deciding who you trust with something this personal.

How to Choose a Matchmaker: Questions to Ask | Matchmaker Amy
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